No wonder I haven’t had time to blog! It’s been a busy summer. Some of you might remember that, in an effort to be mindful about doing things I want to do instead of just talking about things I want to do, I started a summer bucket list at the end of the school year.
If I was being my typical self, I’d look at the list and see everything that’s still left. But today, because Patti Digh reminded me that I get to choose what I focus on and what I don’t, I choose to look at what we’ve already accomplished in this blur of a month.
I wogged my way through the Kansas City Color Run and can unequivocally say it absolutely IS the happiest 5K on the planet. I remarked to my friend and fellow runner Sandra that I don’t think I would have been able to enjoy the after-run when I was younger. I’ve always been too self-conscious, too worried about what others would think, too concerned with how I looked as I danced and sang. Not this time. Maybe it was the endorphins, or maybe it was just that I was another anonymous blob of color that blended into the technicolor crowd; whatever the reason, I danced, sang, conga-ed and had a blast.
Erin and I started her fairy garden, made a date and watched Brave together, and tested a top secret chocolate cupcake recipe (more on all this soon). Nicholas and I went to a Royals game, where we cheered, sang and ate dirt and worms concretes for dinner. He loved the game and I loved the excitement he didn’t even try to contain. There’s nothing quite like watching a baseball game with someone who doesn’t know—and could care less about—the politics and the business beyond the dugout. He just loves seeing them PLAY, and that was refreshing.
I transformed one barn window into a shelf and another into a hanging peg-board of sorts for kitchen aprons, planted an herb garden on my back deck, cleared my backyard of more than 10 bags of ground cover, perfected this crepe recipe and have been experimenting with filling recipes (favorite so far: a simple combination of cream cheese, lemon curd and lemon zest drizzled over fruit) and found Biscoff butter and ate too much of it straight from the jar and in this no-bake cheesecake recipe.
We camped out under the night sky to watch 4th of July fireworks and gaze at the stars, and grilled dinner (though it wasn’t pizza or dessert). This week we’re painting ceramics, holding our breath while Adam sits behind the wheel for the first time and making melted bead suncatchers for the garden.
And I’m still working, and planning, enjoying this time while we’re all still together, and giddy with excitement thinking about what July will bring.

Running List:
Complete the Color Run
Take the kids out of town once (St. Louis maybe?)
Learn how to can
Learn how to sew
Make aprons for Erin and I
Do something with a barn window (like this or this or this)
Go to a wine tasting
Cook my way through this book
Go to First Friday downtown and Third Thursday in OP
Perfect the crepe
Makes lots of homemade ice cream
Go to the Drive In
Read at least 6 books
Make Sharpie tshirts
Go stargazing with the kids
Pool party at local hotel
Outdoor movie night
Picnic lunches
Berry/fruit picking
Create a Fairy Garden
Grill pizza & dessert
Dance under the stars
Happy Days & Laverne & Shirley marathons with the kids
Teach Adam how to drive
Reading contest
Yoga with Erin
Complete ribbon wreath for front door (actually done!)
Watch 4th of July Fireworks
Take kids to ceramic place to make new mugs
Clean out basement
Transform downstairs bathroom into ‘art gallery’
Eat dinner often on the deck
Make a summer fun cookbook
Royals Game w/Nicholas
See Brave with Erin
Royals game as a family




Mom, daughter, sister, friend...busy yet blessed single mom to three amazing kids who continually show me the ropes. Writer, reader, yoga student, aspiring runner, book and music lover. Occasionally artistically inspired, continually curious, optimistically challenged, adventure-seeking, caffeine addicted and sleep deprived, a continuing work in progress. Finding my way, one step at a time.


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Sounds wonderful so far! I don’t have a summer bucket list. Maybe I should.

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Confession of guilt: I made a summer list too. In a way, it helps me dream better… I love the items on yours and will be checking back to see how your summer is coming along!
You are rocking your list, girl! What great reflection you have shared as well on the things you’ve accomplished. I love what you said about enjoying the Color Run now versus when you were younger. So very true!
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Cheryl–you should definitely have one! I resisted the idea for a long time, and I know that some people don’t like the phrase ‘bucket list’ but it’s really helping me be more mindful of what I want to accomplish. It’s been fun!
Hi Roxanne! Thanks for stopping by. I’ve made unofficial lists before that never saw the light of day, so it’s a work in progress!
Well, you inspired me to write one and post it, so thank you! Knowing that I’ve put it ‘out there’ helps.
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