So, I'm a slacker. Day 8 of 30 Days About Me and I think this is only my 4th post. I've never been much of a 50% girl, but life takes precedence, right? So, today I'm climbing back on the wagon with today's prompt: Something I Hate.
True confession: I try to not use the word hate very often. Especially around my kids. We usually have the discussion that hate is a very, very strong word that should be reserved for extreme situations. The word stupid also falls into that category. Still, like (most) parents I know, I find myself saying things that I tell my kids not to.
There's the easy list of 'things' that I hate…smoking, olives, eggplant, record-hot-temperatures, that my house gets messier far often than it's pristine and when people read over my shoulder. Snakes. Mice. Taking out the trash. Running out of coffee or cream.
Then there's the important list; the philosophical/ethical issues that make me cringe. Things like parentless children, people who think they know it all, people who judge based on someone's skin color and unrealized potential. Excuses, wallowing in self-pity and blaming others for ones' choices. Perhaps hate isn't the right word for that, but I dislike those harsh realities of life.




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good dislike list! agree with almost everything. we had eggplant for dinner
love your blog by the way!!
WHAT????? You "hate" olives? I didn't know I had any friends who hate olives. yikes….
What a list! I also hate people reading over their shoulder….I can feel it and it bugs me!
YOU HATE OLIVES!-I don't think I can follow you–LOL-OK I'll get over that (PS I'm following from vB ) -I agree with EVERTHING on you list. Oh the HOUSE one day I'll be abole to afford a cleaning lady! =)
BTW- LOVE THE SHOES!!!!!!
Good morning,
I like this post for a few reasons. As a new year's resolution, I 'gave up' using the word hate a few years ago, primarily so the boys wouldn't hear it. We also have tried to ban the word stupid, but they hear me say 'idiot a lot, mostly in traffic, so that one is still out there.
As for things you strongly dislike, I agree with most of those too, although, the last two times I had eggplant, it was pretty good, but it was eggplant parm and thus battered and fried. Self-pity is a very destructive emotion, but the one big one you didn't seem to include was guilt. Guilt is a horrible emotion that can wreck a lot of things.
But between you and me, I really HATE black olives and really don't like snakes.
Popping over from voiceBoks, I think I'm the only dude on there.
cheers,
Richard
Hi Richard! Good to see a dude from vB
You are so right about guilt and it being an emotion that can really wreak havoc. I always joke that because I’m Type A, first born AND Catholic that guilt is my first language; maybe that’s why I didn’t think to include it in my list!
LOL…..I didn’t realize that sharing my true feelings about olives would be such a contentious issue!! Thanks so much for stopping by….and your shoes are pretty awesome as well! We’re going to get along just fine
YES! Worse even when they breathe heavy and don’t talk. LOL.
Guess I’m an oddball friend, then? That’s ok….we all need a few of those. Keeps things interesting!
Thanks Lizzie! I know that eggplant needs love too…just not from me
thanks for stopping by!